November 25th is the day of stop violence against woman day, a day i truly stand pro in because so many thing happening around us ans sometime we are just to afraid to step forward to help or put a stop to it till its to late. this specific awareness is one that truly speaks to be me because i can not stand to see violence against woman or children with out speaking out my mind and most cases its so difficult to help because, the person must first want to be helped before you can actually achieve something. And most cases they want help when its too late and nothing more can be done. For the sake of this day don’t sit back and wait till they are ready , do something because you never know who the person needing your help can be. Growing up i have read many books about the subject based on culture, religion and social status, trying to find the reason behind this and which one is more pro to fight against it or leave it all wash over them and wont ask for help until its to late. Its very hard to say this can never happen to you because you never know who will be the one inflicting it and can almost never for see the signs until its to late. And the best way i can advice to stay 0n top of the is knowing about it, learn more and teach others. make people aware of this,some people are living years with this terror, afraid of being abandoned by their family because they step up and fought against it, being brought in a new country by that one person you trust and have him break that trust in every way possible and your own family standing behind him and not you. The only only feeling you will get out of this scene is that you failed as a woman because everything happening to you is what you have been told that its right. Others are killed, abused or permanently damaged because of sick and jealous people. Why because for years woman has been show as the weakest link and learned that a women job is to stand behind her husband and family no matter what she may be going trough, they chose to stick with him for the kinds which many times lead to children abuse too. Through all this pain and abuse one thing we and woman deny to see , it takes a really strong woman to put them self down and take this for the sake of somebody else but her pain. Be strong stand for your self and put a stop to it !
I had made this picture a week back but it was randomly with this subject in mind. I was intending to blog it but waited for this hugely important day. Like many woman suffering from domestic abuse, there will be a dangerous scare on their inner self, a scar that damaged their inner worth and confidence. they will look at them self with the eyes of pain and unable to see their true beauty. On the other side of this there are women living with permanent scares because of of the abuse inflected on them. One tool used is the acid to burn their beauty and femininity to keep others from looking at her. to kill the female and her inner strength as a woman. But dont let this bring you down because Beauty is in the eye of the beholder Different people have different ideas about what is beautiful
I will be adding some good books and a video related to this day.
Encouragements for the Emotionally Abused Woman: Wisdom and Hope for Women at Any Stage of Emotional Abuse Recovery
In the Life and Mind of a Physically, Mentally, Sexually,& Verbally Abused Woman: This Is My Surviving Story
Confessions of a Battered Woman: A True Story of How an Abused Woman Devised a Plan to Leave Her Batterer and Start a New Life
This video is not very well done but it shows the point in this movie; Madea’s family reunion, madea teaches Lisa how to stand up against her abusive future husband and defend herself
If somebody has a better link of this piece i would love to see it.
I just received an other video idea for this post from a great friend and will be adding it too.
The Color Purple: Fight My Whole Life
Disclaimer: The movie, pictures and video are not mines but linked from different sites with you can go directly to them through the links